Self empowerment is taking personal responsibility for one's own learning and development through the process of assessment, reflection, and taking action to be able to stand in your own power.
Firstly you have to strip yourself bare, look at all aspects of yourself, see yourself as you think others see you and be open to change so that you can be in control of you.
The process involves Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Nuro-Linguistic Programming, Counselling and being totally honest with yourself.
As long as you are still alive, you are capable of changing and growing. You can do anything you want to do, be anything you want to be.